CHANGE IN THE SHADOW OF THE TALE…

We all know the tale of the ugly duckling. ostracized, humiliated, ridiculedwho took shelter in his family that he did not feel belonged to, but who went towards the unknown because he was not accepted.ugly duck. We were all ugly ducklings at certain times. I was a very weak child. To my momWhen they said, “This doesn’t look like you, who does it look like”, I look at myself in front of the mirror with sad eyes.I would look. I watched it hurt me in my reflection.My father used to say, “He’s my ugly duckling, he’ll be a swan when he grows up.” First cut this taleI had heard from him.I read it once again in Women Who Run With Wolves (Clarisa P. Estes) and it was completely different.I became rich with his teachings. Tales are universal. All stories of exclusion contain the same core of meaning. “Girls are taken in from their infancy and domesticated. wrong thembut they are said to be incompetent people who do not admit their faults. In general, it is not the person’s fault that they were excluded at an early stage. Your ignorancecruelty, misunderstanding, or deliberate evil done by others. When this happens, the girl child is affected by the negative effects of her family and culture.He begins to believe that it is entirely true. Weak, ugly, unacceptable and whatThey begin to believe that this truth will not change no matter how hard they try to reverse it.”(K.K. with the Wolves) quote.These feelings are hidden in the dark corners of all of us. religion, race, cultureIt can affect us, but it cannot change our human feelings. To be a mother without discovering the nature of being a woman, to raise the women of the futureIt shows how important the responsibility is. If a wounded mother is not aware of her wounds and does not do what is necessary, she will always find love elsewhere.He finds himself searching… However, if he could look into his own heart, if he could face the truth there, how muchrealizes that he is important, talented, successful. This is how healing begins. Increasing awareness empowers women. It makes it valuable. It enriches. woman freedomIf it expands its framework, it raises free girls. If the woman is strong, the children she raisesit will be just. A properly educated man is also included in the justice mechanism and will lead a better life.the world is created. Don’t think about how we got here from the ugly duckling, it’s all your faulty feelingsIt arises from capturing man, especially woman…

 

 

 

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